Grief Support
Understanding Grief
Grief is a natural response to any significant loss in our lives. While often associated with death, grief can also be experienced through relationship breakdowns, estrangement from family, loss of identity, life-changing health diagnoses, the end of important relationships, or any major life change that impacts our sense of normalcy and connection.
Some Key Signs of Grief
Emotional pain and sadness
Changes in sleep patterns
Loss of appetite or emotional eating
Difficulty concentrating
Feeling overwhelmed
Changes in energy levels
Feelings of isolation
Anxiety about the future
Anger or irritability
Physical symptoms (headaches, fatigue)
Getting Support
NHS Resources
NHS 24: Call 111
Your local GP
Support Organisations
Cruse Bereavement Care: 0808 808 1677
The Good Grief Trust: 0800 2600 400
Child Bereavement UK: 0800 02 888 40
SAMH (Scottish Association for Mental Health): 0344 800 0550
Samaritans: 116 123 (24/7 support)
WAY Widowed & Young (for under 50s)
Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide (SOBS): 0300 111 5065
Day-to-Day Management
Self-Care Tips
Allow yourself to feel your emotions
Keep a grief journal
Maintain basic routines where possible
Stay connected with supportive people
Get enough rest
Take things one day at a time
Consider joining a grief support group
Practice mindfulness or meditation if helpful
Workplace Support
Know your bereavement leave rights
Communicate with your employer about your needs
Consider a phased return to work
Access occupational health support if available
When to Seek Additional Help
Reach out to your GP or mental health professional if:
You're struggling to cope with daily life
Experiencing persistent depression
Having thoughts of self-harm
Unable to sleep or eat
Feeling stuck in intense grief for a prolonged period
Finding it hard to function day-to-day
Additional Support
Financial Support
Support for Young People
Winston's Wish: 08088 020 021
Grief Encounter: 0808 802 0111
This guide accompanies Matt's story on the A Sonic Hug podcast. While comprehensive, it should not replace professional advice. Every person's grief journey is unique, and there is no 'right' way to grieve. Always seek professional support if you're struggling.